Insightful.
http://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship.html
"The Student’s Wife" is from Raymond Carver’s first story collection, Will You Please Be Quiet, Please, published in America in 1976. You could say it’s from Ray’s "early period" – written possibly as early as the late 60s, when he was one side or the other of 30 years old. Its verbal resources are spare, direct, rarely polysyllabic, restrained, intense, never melodramatic, and real-sounding while being obviously literary in intent. (You always know, pleasurably, that you’re reading a made short story.) These affecting qualities led some dunderheads to call his stories "minimalist", which they are most assuredly not, inasmuch as they’re full-to-the-brim with the stuff of human intimacy, of longing, of barely unearthable humour, of exquisite nuance, of pathos, of unlooked-for dread, and often of love – expressed in words and gestures not frequently associated with love. More than they are minimal, they are replete with the renewings and the fresh awarenesses we go to great literature to find. When they were first published in Britain by Collins Harvill, they made a great sensation that quickly spread all over the world, and made Ray (who was lovable, anyway) adored as the great story writer of his generation. Which he was. And is.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/audio/2012/dec/23/richard-ford-raymond-carver-wife
Ever wanted to look deep into the terrifying darkness that is the brain of a working artist? No, why would you? Sounds depressing. Instead, settle back and enjoy Janie Haddad Tompkins (an actress) and Aaron Ginsburg (a TV writer) as they share the absurdities of their lives working in Hollywood. Together these friends paint a portrait of life in showbiz through their perpetually unhinged, loopy, hilarious brand of meandering conversationalism.
Tweet @JanieHaddad and @DrLawyercop (or email janieandaaron@gmail.com) your thoughts, questions, or current obsessions to be a part of the weekly chat-fest.
http://janieandaaron.buzzsprout.com/6064/65249-janie-aaron-does-hollywood-paul-f-tompkins-ep-23
Junot Diaz burst onto the literary scene with "Drown," a collection of short stories voiced by Yunior, a tough-talking Latino struggling to make his way on the streets of New Jersey. Diaz has revived Yunior for his latest book, "This Is How You Lose Her." Only this time, Yunior is juggling multiple women, and figuring out how to be faithful to his fiancee. The Pulitzer Prize-winning author joins us to talk about the book, and what it takes to be faithful.
Paul Auster remembers the car accident that nearly killed him and his family. It’s one of a series of brushes with death from his new book, "Winter Journal." Auster also recalls dirty fights as a child, sitting next to his mother’s lifeless body as an adult, the crumbling of his first marriage and the slow breakdown of his own body over time. Paul Auster joins us to talk about aging, death and the power of the written word.
Marc David (Psychology of Eating) discusses women’s bodies, emotional eating and how they are at odds with sex, dating and relationships. Also discussed: Dieting, marriage issues, relationship issues, sexual attraction, attraction loss, what is sexy, and practical advice.
http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2012/07/tnm-117-marc-david-psychology-of-eating/
Tokyo Podcast talks about dating in Japan. Are Japanese girls too shy? Do Japanese guys flirt? What is nanpa? We go in-depth with dating columnist Melissa Feineman in our dating in Japan special episode.
VC, entrepreneur and blogger Brad Feld talks about the special challenges, tips and insights of building a startup without ruining your marriage.
http://startupsuccesspodcast.com/2011/12/show-127-brad-feld-on-the-startup-marriage/
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In this segment, we take an emotional left turn to a story of a very different kind of lost and found. We begin with a college student, Alan Lundgard, who fell in love with a fellow art student, Emilie Gossiaux. Emilie’s mom, Susan Gossiaux, describes her daughter, and the terrible phone call she recieved from Alan nine months after he became Emilie’s boyfriend. Together, Susan and Alan tell Jad and Robert about the devastating fork in the road that left Emilie lost in a netherworld, and how Alan found her again.
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